separation – A Lighthouse for the Soul

Divine Mother on Overcoming Separation

September 27, 2026 by Rob Loveland, posted in Channeling, Divine Mother, spiritual guidance, spiritual info

[This message was channeled during the Infinity Keys Workshop Series, Workshop 3, but I think the message is appropriate for everyone. — Rob]

Rob: Well, as often happens, whenever we get to talking about unity, ultimately it seems to be the Mother who has the most to say. So let’s bring in the Divine Mother and hear her welcome message.

Divine Mother: Greetings, all. Yes, this is the Mother, your Mother, Mare, welcoming you all to this session. As always, it is such a joy to observe you all, really digging in to understanding who you are and where you fit in WITHIN the Company of Heaven.

You very often refer to us in some way as separate from you, that is, those of us in the Company of Heaven. But nothing could be further from the truth. You are here with us, always. You are never not connected.

In [a previous] session, you talked about connectedness, and that is the first step in coming to accept that there really is no separation. The sense of separation is probably the largest false belief of your reality in the physical realm. But, of course, it was set up that way. That’s by design. You are meant to feel that separation, so that you can find your way back home to us, to yourself, for you never actually left us, left this realm, the higher dimensions. This [life] is simply an experience you choose to have.

But that sense of separation, as you discussed last time, leads to a sense of loneliness, of isolation, and then, ultimately, that gives way to a [desire] within you for a sense of belonging. You want to belong to something larger than yourself, larger than your sense of yourself as being small, and yes, isolated and separated from all others. But again, this is a false belief.

And it is that longing for feeling connected to all others that ultimately leads you, through some effort of your own, to that sense of unity that you are, in fact, one with all. You were created of the same energy that created all the rest of creation, so, in that sense, you ARE one with All That Is.

So, it is simply a decision on your part to start thinking that way, to make the conscious choice, “I am one with that,” whatever that is that you’re observing. “We are the same; we are equal.”

This is where the Key of Humility comes in. Yes, you are no better than anyone else, but you are no less than anyone else. And it is this sense of belonging that leads to wanting to share OF yourself, to share YOUR gifts with others. That is the key. You are no worse than anyone else. You are the same. You are equal. So that sense of belonging, [i.e.] the desire for belonging, ultimately leads to, or I would recommend you, to start thinking in terms of “How can I serve others with my gifts, with what it is that I came here to share?”

And of course you can only share that which you possess, so it requires a healthy dose of heart listening, which is ultimately simply receiving, receiving through your heart all of the energies that we are sending you, that the earth is providing to you.

Mother Mary on Using Humility-Unity to Overcome Separation

June 21, 2026 by Rob Loveland, posted in Channeling, Mother Mary, spiritual guidance, spiritual info, Upcoming Course

[This is the third in a series of six messages related to the Infinity Keys, the pairing of the Keys to Self with the Keys to Heaven, which will be the subject of a series of workshops to begin 29 Aug 2026. Stay tuned for upcoming announcements. — Rob]

Rob: So this is the continuation of the series of going through the pairings of the Infinity Keys. This one would be on Humility and Unity to overcome any sense of separation. I know it seems kind of obvious, but I think this has got to be Mother Mary.

So, Mary, do you have anything to share today with respect to the Infinity Keys?

Mother Mary: Greetings, all. Yes, this is your mother, Mare, come to talk to you ultimately about unity. If I had to put my finger on one concept that would have the greatest impact on humanity’s ability to make the shift to the next level, it would be to adopt, to accept the idea, the reality of Unity Consciousness, that we are all one. Yes, it seems in life these days, but it is true that it is actually the hallmark of virtually the entirety of human history, certainly so for the last couple thousand years.

The feelings of separation, it is a false belief, [where] people, one group, feeling that they are somehow different than another, that they are separate from another. And this, of course, gives rise to any number of expressions of negativity. It seems there is no consequences if somebody is other than you, separate from you, different than you, then it is okay to harbor feelings that are less than positive. You treat them as different, but the reality is there is no such thing. It cannot be.

You overcome this sense of separation, feeling that you are somehow separated from all that you see, [where] everything that you witness outside of you feels separate from you, [by realizing], in reality, it is simply an expression of what is within you. It is there because you have put it there, because you have designed your life to give you that experience of whatever it is that you see there.

So, the third dimensional system is set up to make you believe that you are separate from all, from THE ALL, and, in fact, that is the primary point of having the experiences in this physical realm, that you are somehow separated from your Source. As we have said, this is an impossibility. There is no such thing as being separated from Source.

Everything that you witness, everything that you see, all that you can touch and feel was manifest through the same energy that gave rise to you. You and that are the same energy, are the same expression of divine creation. You may have chosen what it is that you want to experience, but it is all the same, the same as you. You and it are of the same substance, therefore, as we expressed last time, you are connected to that.

You are the same as that, through the sense of humility within yourself, that is, that you are no better than anyone else, but by the same token, you are no less than anyone else or anything else. Given that you were created from THAT same power, the universal power that gives rise to ALL physical expression, you have the full power of the entirety of the universe within you at all times.

So through yourself, your own beliefs and that sense of humility, you find that expression of Unity Consciousness. You come to understand that you are the same as all other, therefore, any contention that you have with another is simply an expression of a contention within yourself.

Return that to balance, the balance of yourself and through your humility with the All, through that sense of Unity Consciousness, and all such conflicts begin to break down. They, in fact, go away, for there is no point of fighting, ultimately, with yourself. There is no winner there. There is no loser there. It is simply an experience you are choosing to have.

El Morya on the Usefulness of Separation

September 30, 2025October 8, 2025 by Rob Loveland, posted in Channeling, spiritual guidance, spiritual info

Rob: I jotted down several topics a couple of weeks ago, and the idea of separation was one of them. I never really covered that in full detail. And given my team’s conversation about the difference between the masculine and the feminine, it strikes me that that’s just another example of separation. Perhaps we could talk about that?

El Morya: Greetings, all. This is El Morya.

The whole idea of separation, as you well know, is an illusion. It is a creation of the physical realities, the realms of physicality, for in the higher realms, there’s no need for such separation. But it is useful here in the realm of physicality as a teaching tool.

Now, some would have you believe that the separation, [i.e. the] human separation from God, was in some way an act of hubris, an act of rebellion, but this is a false notion. This realm was set up to enable all of you as co-creators, fully endowed with the full creation ability of God, to express yourself.

So life in the physical requires a separation of male and female … well, it doesn’t require it. It serves a purpose. It is useful. Having done so to enable God to experience Himself/Herself/Itself/Ourself through the expression of separated individuals, the difficulty is that you separate yourself from God so that you could see firsthand as a very real experience the laws of cause and effect. The realm of separation, of feeling individual and separated from all others — including time, with one minute separated from the next, progressing in a linear fashion — allows you to experience cause and effect in a very real way.

The notion of being lost and being separated from God is a false notion. You can never be separated from your Source. You live within that energy. You ARE that energy. The illusion of separation comes from BELIEVING that that is your natural state, that that is your real state, and forgetting who it is that you really are.

But the value of relearning who it is that you are, while still in the realm of duality, simply means that you are learning to integrate all aspects of yourself — the masculine, the feminine — and returning that to balance. For God is all things, so all parts that you see around you that are seemingly separate, one from another, are all parts of God, are all parts of that creation.