Mother Mary on Using Humility-Unity to Overcome Separation

[This is the third in a series of six messages related to the Infinity Keys, the pairing of the Keys to Self with the Keys to Heaven, which will be the subject of a series of workshops to begin 29 Aug 2026.  Stay tuned for upcoming announcements. — Rob]

Rob: So this is the continuation of the series of going through the pairings of the Infinity Keys. This one would be on Humility and Unity to overcome any sense of separation. I know it seems kind of obvious, but I think this has got to be Mother Mary.

So, Mary, do you have anything to share today with respect to the Infinity Keys?

Mother Mary: Greetings, all. Yes, this is your mother, Mare, come to talk to you ultimately about unity. If I had to put my finger on one concept that would have the greatest impact on humanity’s ability to make the shift to the next level, it would be to adopt, to accept the idea, the reality of Unity Consciousness, that we are all one. Yes, it seems in life these days, but it is true that it is actually the hallmark of virtually the entirety of human history, certainly so for the last couple thousand years.

The feelings of separation, it is a false belief, [where] people, one group, feeling that they are somehow different than another, that they are separate from another. And this, of course, gives rise to any number of expressions of negativity. It seems there is no consequences if somebody is other than you, separate from you, different than you, then it is okay to harbor feelings that are less than positive. You treat them as different, but the reality is there is no such thing. It cannot be.

You overcome this sense of separation, feeling that you are somehow separated from all that you see, [where] everything that you witness outside of you feels separate from you, [by realizing], in reality, it is simply an expression of what is within you. It is there because you have put it there, because you have designed your life to give you that experience of whatever it is that you see there.

So, the third dimensional system is set up to make you believe that you are separate from all, from THE ALL, and, in fact, that is the primary point of having the experiences in this physical realm, that you are somehow separated from your Source. As we have said, this is an impossibility. There is no such thing as being separated from Source.

Everything that you witness, everything that you see, all that you can touch and feel was manifest through the same energy that gave rise to you. You and that are the same energy, are the same expression of divine creation. You may have chosen what it is that you want to experience, but it is all the same, the same as you. You and it are of the same substance, therefore, as we expressed last time, you are connected to that.

You are the same as that, through the sense of humility within yourself, that is, that you are no better than anyone else, but by the same token, you are no less than anyone else or anything else. Given that you were created from THAT same power, the universal power that gives rise to ALL physical expression, you have the full power of the entirety of the universe within you at all times.

So through yourself, your own beliefs and that sense of humility, you find that expression of Unity Consciousness. You come to understand that you are the same as all other, therefore, any contention that you have with another is simply an expression of a contention within yourself.

Return that to balance, the balance of yourself and through your humility with the All, through that sense of Unity Consciousness, and all such conflicts begin to break down. They, in fact, go away, for there is no point of fighting, ultimately, with yourself. There is no winner there. There is no loser there. It is simply an experience you are choosing to have.

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Lao Tzu on Humility and Finding Peace

Rob: So I’m in my sacred landscape, and I’m going down to the water. And at the edge of the water is a tree with a big rock, a boulder, underneath it. Lao Tzu is there, sitting on the rock, waiting for me. So I’m taking a seat next to him in the shade of the tree.

So since I drew a card on humility, and because humility is one of the Blessings and Virtues, and in fact, I had chosen it as one of the Keys to Self, I probably would have said I know what I need to know about humility. But I acknowledge, also, there’s always more.

So do you have anything to share with me, something I don’t know, perhaps about myself and my own attitudes, my own beliefs, about humility?

Lao Tzu: Greetings, Rob. So nice of you to join me here [on] this pleasant day, enjoying the calm by the water’s edge. And the calm is important. It seems to be a theme — slow down, take time out to just enjoy the peace.

At the end of the day, that’s really what humans need to learn — how to go through this life, any life, in a state of peace and calm. It is fine to be excited about something new, learning something new, experiencing something new. That brings the joy.

But at the end of the day, the lasting contentment comes from the peace, leaving the turmoil behind, centering yourself and going within in order to find that place of calm, to find that place that really speaks to who you really are. For at the end of the day, nothing that happens out there — there in the physical world — can affect you unless you allow it.

And as soon as you accept that, firmly believe that, it stops affecting you; it stops disturbing your calm, your peace. It’s just something that’s happening. It’s all just happening for your entertainment and, yes, perhaps for you to learn something, to witness a scenario play out so that you may understand all sides, so that you can fully grasp the depth of whatever the situation is, whatever it is that you have to learn, that you have chosen to learn.

There is nothing you have to do in this life or any other. It is all based on the plan of what it is that you have set out to learn, set out to experience. So why would any of that disturb your peace? It only does if you allow it. But I am asking, why would you allow it?

Think of it as sitting in a classroom … as you’re sitting in the chair, waiting for the teacher to present their lecture, present the material, whatever form that is, do you feel anxious about that? Do you feel a lack of calm and peace while you’re sitting there absorbing what the teacher is offering? Most likely not. So why would you feel any different about your own experiences that you have chosen as a means to teach you? It’s no different.

The point is, to get to that state, one has to acknowledge at all times that you are divine, that you are a divine spirit who is simply choosing a set of experiences in order to learn or in order to just have fun as a source of entertainment. So none of this should be taken too seriously. The trick is, if I could call it a trick, is to keep in mind at all times [to] never forget who you are. If you are operating from that perspective, then all the rest of it, all of the turmoil in the world, just seems silly to allow that to disturb your own peace.

So the notion of humility is simply understanding, operating from the perspective, that God is your only source, for God is all that there is. You hear at times people refer to God as “All That Is,” and it is true … and you are part of that. You are part of the All, therefore you also are All That Is!

That’s not to be taken in any way as boastful. No, it is operating from a position of humility that you are nothing without the God Source within you. You would not be here without that. None of us would be.

And think of the majesty of ALL of what that means, the complexity involved, the magnificence involved, and yes, THOU ART THAT, that is living from a position of humility and respect for who you are.

I hope that has helped. Perhaps your teammate has some questions for us.

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