Tag: Non-Judgment

Quan Yin on Loving and Serving Without Judgment, the Greatest Act of Compassion

by Rob Loveland, posted in Channeling, Quan Yin, spiritual guidance, spiritual info

Rob: I’m looking to meet Quan Yin to talk about how to love and serve without judgment. Is she going to come in on the dragon or on the lotus?! [Laughs]

Teammate: She’s driving. 😉

Rob: Yeah, she’s driving. There you go. It’s the dragon. Although in three-dimensional flying space, I don’t know that you could cut off other drivers. 🤣

Quan Yin: Hello, all. This is Quan Yin, the Goddess of Compassion.

So it is good that you are all laughing about what you see as your own limitations, and I will say, Rob, the fact that you are looking at your own behavior and recognize that perhaps there is a better way to behave, that there is a better attitude you can have about what it is that you see around you, this is a sign of your progress, of your advancement. You are, in fact, making progress.

Self-examination is the highest form, the most advanced form, of practice that you can do. At the end of the day, if you are honest with yourself, you will see that there is a better way.

So you often joke around with your teammates that driving in traffic is the one thing that drives you crazy more than anything else. But you are asking, why is that? Why do you allow something as mundane as driving on the roadway from one place to another to disturb your peace to such a degree that you actually get upset by it, by the actions of others?

But I need not remind you. No one on the road is doing anything to upset Rob. They’re just going to whatever their destination is, in the only way that they know how. The fact that you get upset by it is a reflection of what is within YOU. It’s your own interpretation of their actions, a projection of your own feelings on their behavior. It has nothing to do with them.

It may be true that they are acting from a place of less maturity, as you called it, a place of, perhaps, even selfishness. But that has nothing to do with you. That is within them. That is their own issue to work out. That is their own state of progress on THEIR journey. Why, in any way, would that upset you?

So your question at the beginning is how to love and to serve without judgment. When you project those kind of ill-intents on others and their actions, that is a form of judgment that is purely based on your own beliefs and your own way of thinking. The first part of [your question] is the key: to just love them, and serve them, so that you are not disturbed by how they behave.

You may watch what they do and think there is a better way. Just love them for where they are. Serve them in any way that you can. And while you are driving on the road, that act of service need be nothing more than you simply allowing them to be who they are and where they are in their journey, not letting it upset you in any way.

Some may think that not reacting to anything that you see in the world, [actions] that generally upset folk in society, is an act of not showing any compassion whatsoever. But I would suggest that the exact opposite is true. The most compassionate thing that you can do for another is to allow them to be, to allow them to progress in their own journey. It is their choice how they go through life, and it is all for a purpose. It is all for a reason, and it is their chosen way.

So the most compassionate thing you can do is allow them to be who they’re going to be, how they are going to be, and simply love them for where they are. READ MORE …

Hum-fire (Humphries) on Maintaining Non-Judgment During Disclosures

by Rob Loveland, posted in Channeling, spiritual guidance, spiritual info

Rob: As the disclosures of truths come to light, I’m sure some of it will be difficult to hear and accept. Humphries, I’m wondering, questioning whether I will be able to accept all that we hear in the coming days, weeks, months, perhaps years, from a perspective of complete non-judgment. Any guidance to offer?

Hum-fire (Humphries): Hello again, Rob, as always. Yes, this is Humfire.

I will say up front that you’re worrying a lot about nothing. Yes, there will be a lot that comes out that is revealed about what has happened in the history, the recent history of the planet. And by recent history, I mean perhaps even hundreds of years. You already have some inkling of some of that, some sense, so I think you know that you will handle that perhaps better than most.

For awareness is the key — just being present, to understand what is happening. As we’ve often said, whatever you learn today about what happened yesterday doesn’t change anything. Now, you know. Now, it has entered into your conscious awareness. What in the world has changed from not knowing to the point of knowing?

Rob: [I was thinking, without articulating aloud, “nothing.”]

Humphries: Exactly. Nothing. You now know.

So what is different? Now, you can act on that, however you are moved to act.

And I would suggest for you, having chosen the symbol of the lighthouse, that symbol of safety, of peace and calm in the storm, [i.e.] being the calm in the storm. This is your way.

So whatever comes out, remain centered. You don’t need to react. And if you watch others reacting strongly, creating that storm, just hold to your center. Remain calm. Find that place of peace. Help others to find that same place of peace within themselves.

And I would suggest that the primary message [to others] is “So now you know.” Whatever is happening that was just revealed was happening yesterday, perhaps for a very long time. It didn’t affect your life then; it need not affect your life now. Just understanding what has been happening is helpful to reframe yourself and reframe your own thinking about what humanity is, what journey humanity is on.

And now that you know the truth of whatever it is that is revealed allows you, then, to incorporate that truth into your life. Now, you can make life better, because you know one more aspect of what you do not want.

Stay within yourself, and you will be fine. And if you find yourself coming to the point of judgment of others, allow yourself to feel whatever that revelation engenders in terms of strong emotions. Let it out. Have your moment, but then come back to yourself. Come back to your center. Understand who you are, and, more importantly, who they are, whoever “they” is.

They’re no different than you. You are all spirit in form, doing what you believe is best for you at the time. And if any of those actions turn out to be less than ideal, [i.e.] not on the path towards unity, that expresses in some way power over others, just an expression of separation and deepening the sense of duality, well, now you know (or you will know). You will have some sense of where to find the peace within you, who to trust, who not to trust, to help you find that.

And I think, in the end, you will come to the point that there’s only one source that you can trust, that is your own sense of discernment within yourself, your own emotions. How does that make you feel? If it makes you feel agitated in any way, then that is simply an indicator that that is not the path that you choose, that you want for your future and for the future of those you hold dear.

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