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However you are processing the goings-on in the world… we all need support as “The Times they are a Changing!” Many of us grew up with Bob Dylan, who was considered a prophet for our generation, and I always felt he was pointing to some really huge shifts – in our lifetime- that we would be wise to be awake to… it feels like we are in the midst of these shifts. NOW. How are you keeping your balance, your positive outlook, your heart in a space of compassion and generosity? Love, Jennifer
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Note: This was a fascinating conversation with St. Germain during a recent channeling session with my teammate Rob Loveland. Ancient mysteries andthings that have been hidden are now coming out into the light… Enjoy! And Happy Halloween, Everyone!
Jennifer: I just would like to check in with Saint Germain, because he was so enthusiastic to help us with our class [about Yeshua & Mary Magdalen, in progress]. And I would just like to get his take on how he might participate, or what he would like, if there’s something he would like to contribute, and when.
Oh, St Germain is here. It’s just… we’re having a little bit of a teasing back and forth about about whether there’s some way he could show me that he’s here, even though he’s already talking to me. He says, “Well, I’m talking to you, aren’t I?” I know. I just thought I’d get some big flash of purple or something. So, you put a big purple plum in my hand. I think when I’m laughing, I become more Jennifer.
St. G: Greetings, my friends, this is Saint Germain, happy to be with you again, delighted to participate with you in any way, when you feel the desire to call upon me. I am watching your progress with great interest because, of course, it is part of my purpose in the world, that a better understanding of the original teachings which we shared in the ancient times in Atlantis and Egypt have been brought forward by Yeshua in his way, and now are being clarified to a great, profound depth through the various sources that you are inspired to include in your class.
And so I am delighted to support you in any way that is helpful. And this is why I became so available when you began to create your class together. I am always your friend, always your companion on the way and happy to come when requested as far as a particular moment during your class, when you might seek to channel me, you will know when it happens. It is not something that is necessary. I am happy to be in the background, and I am happy to hold the space for you.
I am, however, an example of one who led more lives in the lower dimensions for longer through your earthly history than the others who are on your short list of helping you to develop this class. So in a way, I am your representative of the multitude of lifetimes, and perhaps I would be of some assistance to you when you go into the class on the further journeys of Yeshua and the years in which he was traveling after the crucifixion.
And yes, there was a period for this, and this is why these places [ France, Kashmir and others] have a deep memory, a deep tradition, spiritual tradition, and of course, they have had less resistance to maintaining this tradition. They have not had to hide their information in quite the same way that the Church in the West desired that certain information be kept from the people, kept from common knowledge. A great deal was kept from the common knowledge for a very long time. And don’t you live in a most amazing era when knowledge is available to everyone?! Not everything is on your internet, but when you think of the libraries at Oxford and Cambridge and this sort of thing being online, and, you know, eventually, the Vatican will yield most of its most secret treasures. It will go through its own metamorphosis. It is not quite the time yet. Steps have been taken in that direction. But you see it is more like two steps forward and one step backward, sometimes two steps backward, but not altogether back to where you were, say, 20 years ago or 40 years ago. You see, slowly, this is evolving. This knowledge is coming out.
I am very interested in this also as well, because I’m a great proponent of the mysteries becoming non-mysterious, becoming accessible and understandable. But you see, if the people are not curious, there is no point trying to bring forward anything. So it is still a rather small part of the population that even has an interest in these matters. And that is fine. That is fine. As the ideas grow, they become more secular. That is not to say they are less sacred, but they become more popular, more of the people. And this is good. This is very good.
So have I answered your question about the class, about contributing to the class?
Rob: I have a question, sure, with respect to the class. Would it be wise for us to talk about you and your relationship to Yeshua at that time? If I remember correctly, were you not Joseph?
StG: This is an interesting question. There is some discrepancy about my position within the life of Yeshua. Our one Archangel Jophiel was the father incarnated into the man Joseph. I was present. I was present, but as a slightly more distant figure than the immediate father. I did participate. I did carry the name Joseph, as a matter of fact, but I was more as an uncle. You see?
Rob: I have another question.
St.G: Yes.
Rob: During the Renaissance, the Rosicrucian Order, whatever- was the knowledge of Yeshua and Mary and their family part of the secret teachings of that order?
St.G: Yes, indeed. Yes indeed. But because, of course, the Church, by that time, had become very much controlling of, through the use of the word of sin and the concepts of sin and around what was carnal and what was all of that, the relationship between Yeshua and Mary Magdalen was, of course, even to the Rosicrucians somewhat distorted. But yes, they made every effort to maintain the truth. It is just as your game where you whisper one to another around a circle, some of the truth was lost, so it was not retained in its integrity, but the idea of the sacred marriage certainly. Yes.
Rob: I see. Thank you.
St G: There is much to be learned from the Rosicrucians. Of course, they are opening up somewhat— but much of their secret knowledge is still kept for those who are willing to become members, which is not an impossible thing to do. But for ‘those who have eyes to see’ you will notice through those things which have been made more public and you will be able to understand and see.
Rob: Thank you.
St G: You are most welcome. Yes, your human history is rather complicated, isn’t it, with that which is hidden and that which is open and that which is hidden and that which is open, and it’s been an interesting evolution for your time on Earth, humanity’s time. There is much that is coming to light now that will interest you and will continue to do so, and much that will be added through the process of channeling.
We are most grateful to have had this opportunity to speak with you today and know that we are present and supporting your class and you each and you all in every moment.
This is Saint Germain. Until the next time.
~ channeled by Jennifer Donaldson, with Rob Loveland, October 4th, 2024
image: Pumpkin in the neighborhood, photo by Jennifer Donaldson. Black Cat painting by Gustav Klimt
This Fall, Rob (one of our Lighthouse teammates) and I are teaching a course together on Yeshua and Mary Magdalen for OLLI, the Senior College open to all over 50 around the country. We have been meeting to channel the material for the class and also channeling during each class. So far it has been most wonderful. I thought you might enjoy this one session where Yeshua and Mary speak as one, then separately, advising us about their earthly life together. Enjoy! Love, Jennifer
Channeling Yeshua & Mary Magdalen together, Oct. 7, 2024
Jennifer: So, I’m getting that this is Yeshua and Mary together. But it didn’t take very long, so I’m not trusting that!(Laugh) What?!You’re fast! Hold on, let me just take a breath….
Yeshua & Mary Magdalen: It is our great pleasure to speak with you both tonight. We have been listening in! (Jen laughing) We are grateful for your interest in us, and not surprised. You both have many, many ties to us both, and of course, there is the curiosity, because you are in your own physical lives.
You are grounded in the earth with your spirit stretched wide and infinitely, and yet your focus is on the human life and what life was like, and how we found each other and how we lost each other, and how we came together, and how we learned from one another, and what our relationship was, and what were the details, and what did it look like and, and, and where did we go and when?
And, of course, this is all of interest to you, and we do understand, not only your interest but, also, we support your understanding that the details are not that important. But we are very mindful of your human journey and your desire to know, because both of you are led in this instance, by a heart connection to us, to both of us. And this is very, very old. The word ‘old’ is not old enough. “Primal”.
It is older than the world that you know, our knowing of each other, because you have levels of yourselves that are connected with us when we were first on the earth and you were first on the earth. There are levels of you who are connected with us from when we were first birthed, from Mother/Father God. We have known one another for So very long.
And there is a mystery around our life on earth, there are many versions of tales and the desire to sort and to clarify one from the other. Was this true? Was this not true? You know, it does not really matter. What really matters we will tell you. But to say, “Was Mary in France, or was she in Spain?” Well, she was in France, you see, and it is something which we are perfectly happy to clarify for you. If you have a burning question about how things were, we can, of course, see the entire picture and offer to you some details.
We would not intrude upon your journeys at this point in your lives, being teachers and coaching and being the lighthouses that you desire so much to be, and are, in fact, being. We would not give you an assignment at this point unless this was something you clearly chose. So let this develop., if it does and if it doesn’t, that is totally fine. You have not in any way let us down or disappointed us. We have no expectations, my Dear Ones. Just allow what brings you delight, what brings you passion, the passion to study something, to learn more, to know more, to explore more deeply. And you now know that this is a wonderful way to explore if you have questions. But again, your version is going to come under question, just like anyone else’s version of any story that you choose to tell about us, and that is fine.
Rob: I do have a question.
Yeshua & Mary: Sure.
Rob: So I’m wondering… I have feelings about …the idea that Mary was in southern France, separated from you, if you are, in fact, deceased at that point, then okay, that separation is a natural part of what the human experience is. But if you were not, and you had to be separated, I just find that incredibly sad.
Yeshua: And it was so for us, the need to part from one another, but we had also been warned that this would come, that our time together would have a parting. So we understood the necessity of this. If my family had stayed with me— I’m speaking as Yeshua — then they would have been in constant danger. If I had traveled with them, then I also would have eventually, as the red flag, called attention to their whereabouts, and their safety would have been compromised. You see?
Now, I did live for a time, but it really was only a short period, more a matter of two or three years, and not 40 years or 500 years. [Channeled sources vary widely in the number of years Yeshua survived the crucifixion, if indeed he did].
Rob: Just a question.I mean, that’s something that I ponder to myself, whether I would, if I were ever asked to do something that extreme, would I have the strength to do it?
Yeshua: Well, you realize that we also were greatly assisted by our heavenly hosts, our Mother, our Father, we each had a very deep faith and deep understanding of our origins within Mother and Father, and we knew that the separation was temporary and that each of us would be completely protected, through the… let me see how to say this… not ‘protected’ in the sense that we needed to, that we thought it was to seek safety for each of us separately but ‘protected’ in the sense that there is no, there is no real separation.
We had learned to telepathically communicate. We had learned to bi-locate. I was completely able to continue to visit with Mary in her meditations,throughoutthe remaining years of her life.
Rob: Is that one of the reasons that she chose to seclude herself, to become more of a recluse?
Yeshua: I will let Mary speak now…
Mary Magdalen: As I became older in my life, and I had concluded much of what I came to France to do, the teachings that were passed on to the community which sprung up around where I was living. And I raised my daughter and saw her married, and I knew that there would be the passing down of the wisdom that had been taught,. After that is when I became more solitary. And I enjoyed the last few years of my life, largely in meditation, largely with my beloved Yeshua, in communion through the meditation. Yes, yes, and I could see him within myself, and I could see him at times seated with me, but it did not last very long.
Rob: I see. Thank you so much.
Yeshua & Mary M: We are grateful for your interest and your commitment. We would be happy to speak with you again, and we can build a more elaborate understanding, if this is your desire. Little by little, not one big marathon session. This is wiser. Enjoy Wednesday. I think you will find that the class develops perfectly. We are with you.
Channeled by Jennifer Donaldson with assistance from Rob Loveland, 10/7/2024
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This is a very recent channeling from our weekly group session, and explains some useful things about historical truth, channeling accuracy, and our need as humans to be “right”. I am currently at work with Rob Loveland on a class for OLLI, the senior college, entitled “Who is Yeshua?” in which we discuss the relationship between Yeshua and Mary Magdalen, and some of this channeling refers to the development of that class content. Hope you ENJOY the uplifting energy of Maggie’s presence…Jen
Channeling Mary Magdalen, July 5th, 2024
Jennifer: I actually would like to talk with Mary Magdalen because I have a whole lot of questions, so let’s see… see what happens… I might get some little fairy, a “fairy named Mary” (laugh)…. I just want to share the imagery that’s coming to me: The infinity sign in front, in and back, and side to side and just in one long continuous loop, kind of like the Celtic loop, front and back, side to side and then filling in the four corners and then giving it a spin, and having it spin really fast. It kind of set up this beautiful kind of… I can’t quite explain it, except it’s a beautiful energy and then I’m in the middle of it and, and then I asked Mary Magdalen if she was around and she said, “When you are ready,” I have to trust that.
Mary, thank you for showing me this beautiful image of us, blending our energies together. This is what’s so helpful to me, to feel you and Yeshua and Mother and Father in perfect balance around my heart, around my core and moving together into a spin, a spin. It’s not a vortex. It’s not anything destructive, of course, like a hurricane. But there’s a beautiful spin, that’s like balancing a top, the way you spin a top. And there you are spinning… so I just so appreciate the centrality. It feels very nurturing and very energetic in a beautiful way, the opposite of stagnant, I guess, flourishing.
Mary Magdalen: Yes, this is Mary Magdalen. Maggie as you enjoy calling me. I am very much your sister. I’m very much your balance. I’m happy to balance you, Yeshua’s happy to balance you, Mother and Father are happy to balance you to the balance point, where you can whirl and twirl and spin to your heart’s delight. It is like your skaters when they do their iridescent spins. When they are performing, it is a lovely thing to be in a spin like that. And then to come out of it with such beautiful grace.
This is a fine place to begin a channeling. You wonder sometimes if it is completely fine to set aside some of your earlier rituals, some of your first-taught “You must do this and then do this and then your crack and your candle,” et cetera, et cetera. Those are given to you if you need to find your way into an unfamiliar place. But this place has become so familiar and so comfortable to you… but it is wise to sit quietly and allow either the imagery or the words to begin flowing. In your case the imagery is something which comes easily to you and gives you a great deal of delight. And so we begin with that.
Now, you have questions about my life, my life on the Earth. And you wonder about all of the different versions and all of those claiming to be listening to me and hearing me and knowing exactly what all these answers are to these different things and you hear one thing and then you hear another and they seem to conflict and, just understand, Dear One. Just understand that each of you is in your own place. Your own position in your awareness, in your blossoming into your full divinity. Each of you is in your own stage of that. But there is a great deal of curiosity about my life and there is a great deal of love for me coming from the planet to which I do heartily respond. And I am most happy to work with anyone who reaches out to me. But you must understand that the results will vary. And this is completely fine. If this person in all sincerity has talked with me and feels that they know the answer to, for example, how many children I had, then you will get one answer and they will back it with all of their sincerity. And that is fine, and then someone else will go through the same process, but in a different place, and will receive a different answer.
So you see some of these discrepancies are based on the parallel lives. Some of these discrepancies are based on your parallel lives, some on the different variations of what I lived when I was in the physical. You see, so all of these things can be true. And the same is true for how long did Yeshua live after he supposedly died? You see, this is a big question in your mind. We can see these questions. We see them. They’re like cloud formations in your blue sky. It doesn’t matter. It truly doesn’t matter. You will continue to discover answers which suffice you at the time or expand you at the time. They may enlarge your idea of what is possible or as [your teammate] has said, they will bring to you some new understandings of what was originally told. And this is important. It doesn’t matter that they’re all in perfect agreement.
There was in fact, an Akashic record which was created through our lifetime together. Yes, and if you wish to consult this Akashic record about anything particular, you are most welcome to do so. If you wish to ask us, we will give you the answer which seems best for you, at that time. It may slant a little bit one way or a little bit another way. It may come, congruently, to you to match a different answer, just for the peace of mind that this will establish.
You see there is no right or wrong, ultimately. There is only love. And these details are embroideries. Does this version of it have blue beads or red beads. Does it have gold threads or silver threads? It doesn’t really matter. You see? What matters is that we taught the love and we taught the divinity and this is why we have brought it back to you in this era. We want you all to know that you are our full brothers and sisters, that we love you dearly and forever, and that we will help you in any way that we can. Because we recognize your full divinity and we know that coming to recognize your own is, is a process; it takes some time.
There are the different stages, there is the caterpillar, and the chrysalis, you see? And then the full butterfly emerges— and they do not live very long in your world. What happens when the butterfly dies? This would make a poem would it not? You see…Reborn again, reborn again in a higher dimension, flying happily in the sixth or seventh dimension and then it chooses to go through more, more incarnations. That same beautiful soul material will continue to form bodies until it no longer desires to do so.
Do the details of the design on the wings of the butterfly matter exactly? Does the butterfly have to make absolutely certain that the black is in the right place and the orange is in the right place, and the dots are in just exactly the right place for it to qualify as a butterfly? No. You see, do not become lost in the details; they will often lead you astray. And because of your human tendency to want to be correct, to want to be right, or wrong, they will often spark an unsettled feeling in the mind of others.
So just remember that the details are not as important. And you do understand, Jennifer, how to read Akashic Record. If you wish to consult the Akashic record about someone else, because your intent is to be as pure as possible in what you offer, then you will receive an answer; you will receive a true picture. But remember it is not so that you can be right or wrong. It is so that you can reach the heart more deeply of those who you are speaking with, and so that you can deepen your trust and your love, the love that you are.
Would there be any questions from anyone else at this point?
Rob: I do have a question. So given that the details are not important and there may be discrepancies between one channelled source and another, some taking [our upcoming] class will use that as an opportunity to say “Well then, none of it is true, if there are discrepancies that exist.” So how would you suggest we steer people away from that kind of thinking? Is it to focus on the message alone? The underlying message?
Mary M: The underlying message certainly. And just to explain that there are many embroideries, that “that is the way the story is told,” does not mean that was the accurate version. You see? Or that was the exact version. In some ways your minds would have trouble comprehending our lives in those days, because you’re very much the product of your own times. So, to remember the underlying message and also there are, umm, there are… there are branches on the tree, say, the underlying message which —we’re using one kind of metaphor, but I’m trying, I’m trying to explain another— say that the core of our message is a tree, a tree trunk— there are branches. There are ways to explain things that will become interesting to people or that will enlarge their view of things, that will expand their understanding, that will go into greater detail.
But, the central message of all of what we brought forth in our teachings was: we are Divinity and so are you. We are all One. We are One with the Father and the Mother. This was left out and should be restored. We prayed to the Father and the Mother because we had a closer balance to the ancient practice of the goddess, of the Divine Mother. But this has been lost in your time and is now just beginning to be reinstated. So, to keep that balance of the Divine Feminine & the Divine Masculine in the representation on Earth, in your earthly experience. You have males and females, animals have males and females, there are even males and female plants, or plant parts, you see, because there are the the active and the passive, or the receptive and the one offering, the one moving forward the one taking in, you see? And there are many ways that the masculine and the feminine are expressed. And so there are, there are discussions which will be rich that you can have following the idea that there is Divinity, you are Divinity. We are Divinity.
God IS, Divinity IS, Love IS.
It can be a short message or it can be a wonderfully interesting, elaborate message. But the words “That is the way the story is told” helps you, perhaps, see that everything that you’ve been told about our lives may not be accurate. And then many of you have been reaching for some version of accuracy since; some of your channelled books are more accurate than others. If you wish to know, you may put your hand upon the book and ask “To what degree is this book accurate? To what percentage is this book accurate?” And you will get a number. It could be 80%. It could be 90%. It could be 55% —and you might choose not to read that book first, or to read it with pure enjoyment, just to see a different version.
Teammate: May I ask, can you also use the pendulum to do that test?
Mary M: Certainly. But if you wish to know, we will tell you; we will be glad to supply a numerical answer which will help you. We know that it is difficult for you to completely trust yourselves with information. Encouragement, love— you’re very good at that, but information is a little trickier because you’re desperately afraid to be wrong.
Teammate: So, may I ask a question around that? So I have been recently trying to perfect my ability to use the pendulum to obtain answers. And sometimes I question, “Am I getting the right answer or am I imposing my thought on that?”
Mary M: You can ask if your dowsing is accurate, to what degree, that day. You see? And to the degree that you are able to be in a calm, centered, confident place where you have done some, some self-nurturing, which has strengthened you, your dowsing will be more accurate. If you are a little on the worn-out side, a little on the ragged side, perhaps your dowsing will not be as accurate….
Teammate: [personal question about the health of a friend… deleted… ]
Mary M: Yes… yes because this is for your own purpose really, to understand. Can you douse accurate information? Yes, you see? And you have to think, what is your purpose? Is it to know more than your friend? No, probably not. But is it to alleviate your own fear for their future? Or what they may be going through? You may want to, you may be hoping for a less-than-serious outcome, so that you can feel relief. You see?
So be clear what your intention is. And then, understand that sometimes you may sway the answer based on what you would like to hear. Yee? That, that’s normal, that’s human.
Teammate: Or fear to hear.
Mary M: Or fear to hear. You see? Now if you just accept whatever answer comes and go “Okay, it will be what it will be. We will go through this together.” And know that we are with your friend as well.
We are never not with you.
We have vowed to stay with you until you know you are with us.
Yes. And you probably shouldn’t ask “Is this? Did I get this right or did I not get that right?” because you are undermining yourself. But if you choose to ask “Am I able to douse accurately today?” that will give you an answer. And then if you do not feel the answers is perhaps correct or doesn’t feel quite right, or you are not in your strength, then you could say “Well, perhaps I will dowse again tomorrow and I would appreciate any correction in my perception.” So, work with us. But try not to doubt yourself. Just be generous with yourself and loving with yourself.
Teammate: Thank you very much.
Mary M: Okay. I’m most glad to be able to converse with you in this way, Dear One. Thank you both very much for supporting Jennifer, and me, with your love and your attention. I say farewell for now.
~ Channeled by Jennifer Donaldson, Maine, USA 7/5/2024
~ Meme of Yeshua and Mary M created by Rob Loveland 7/5/2024Thanks, Rob!
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Jennifer: It’s very timely for me, this idea of the value of the long term relationship [nearing my 50th wedding anniversary]… It seems like there are costs as well as benefits, and I’ve been kind of chafing a little bit at the idea of adjusting to certain limitations [such as aging], when in fact I’m beginning to feel more and more unlimited, and I have the desire to feel like I am being absolutely in integrity with my soul’s purpose and not with the expectations of society as to how long relationships should last. I’m just interested in hearing more about relationships and maybe my friends here have questions too.
I’m feeling Mary, Mary Magdalene, “Maggie”, my Dear one.
Mary Magdalen: Thank you, Beloved ones. Yes, I am here. I am very interested in this topic. The topic of the value of relationships, the connections between each of you…
You know you have unlimited connections between all expressions of the Divine Father and Divine Mother. You will feel these connections at different times and sometimes many, simultaneously, and as you become more and more comfortable with your own limitless-ness as a Being incarnated, you will become aware of the variety and multiplicity of connections on many levels, with one another, with many in your world, with students, potential and long ago, nowadays, with what is happening within your extended family, what is happening within your group of friends, what is happening within your circle of those who are advancing, growing, developing, evolving each day into their mastery -which we have mentioned before, is this group.
We want to set your mind at rest in the sense that you do not need to concern yourself that you have to limit yourself to anything other than the truth of your experience. And as long as you can maintain the truth of your experience within your primary household, then this relationship will be fed, this relationship will be honored. It is important that you be able to express the truth of your experience— your feelings, your evolving understandings— and to share that to the extent that the other is willing.
It is fine if your beloved is not your major confidant about spiritual things because there certainly are enough points of connection and enough ways in which you inspire one another and touch one another’s hearts. And that is the important thing. The important thing is that you feel nurtured in your relationship, that you are not the only one doing the nurturing, that there be an infinity loop between you and the heart of anyone who you are going to dedicate a great deal of your life to — and have— that there be this infinity loop of giving and receiving.
And sometimes you are the leader and you’re the teacher and sometimes your beloved is actually showing you some things- much to your surprise. So you see, a balance. A relationship is valuable in as long as it continues to be a source of encouragement, support, comfort, companionship, inspiration—there are so many aspects to a good relationship.
And you do not have to think that your relationship is perfect. There may be areas in which you do not completely coincide and this is perfectly fine. You are not missing anything, my Dear. You have had many lifetimes where you have had much shorter relationships and so, give yourself the knowing that this is the lifetime in which you chose one long and thoroughly valuable relationship. Receive that gift. Hear your own truth. I’m speaking your truth, my Dear.
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